Venus Square Pluto Natal and Transit

Venus Square Pluto TransitVenus square Pluto in the natal chart complicates your close relationships because of the intensity of your feelings. Not your general mood and feelings, but how you feel and show love and affection. When you become attracted to someone, this intensity can show as infatuation or even stalking. You simply fall deeply in love but sometimes your behavior can be threatening or over bearing to others, especially while you are young.

With age comes the ability to hide the more negative behaviors. But to have your goals for true mutual love fulfilled, you must transform, not hide, those destructive behaviors. These negative behaviors mainly center around gaining total control of the relationship, so that you need not feel insecure or worried it might end. This can result in manipulative behavior like jealousy, guilt trips or possessiveness.

Using your power to force someone to love you will ultimately end in a breakup, which of course, would be extremely painful and dramatic for you. But it is only through such intense relationships that you gain the self-awareness of your manipulative or controlling behaviors. Then you can use your immense power to positively transform how you give and receive love. This process may be painful because you will come to realize that self-love is the real issue. Once you learn how to really love yourself, then the unconditional love and approval you seek will be at hand.

Before you reach the realization of the need for self-love, you may be attracted to dangerous partners or those who treat you badly. You may actually be attracting such types subconsciously because of your poor self-image.

Venus Square Pluto Transit

Transiting Venus square Pluto can have a profound effect on your love life. Power and control issues may arise in existing relationships. Simmering tension may come to the surface as some manipulative behavior like jealousy or possessiveness. At the root of such behaviors would be a deeply buried fear or insecurity about not feeling loved or valued. Of course, it may be you who is subject to such behaviors from a partner.

Threats and ultimatums are possible if either partner feels smothered or controlled. An unhealthy relationship may breakdown which would be very painful or dramatic. A well based relationships will withstand the intensity of this transit. In this case, there would still be some kind of transformation undertaken within the relationships dynamics.

New love is possible now and it could seem like instant attraction. However, you must also realize that such an infatuation may lead to an abusive or even violent attachment.

Venus Square Pluto Celebrities

Chuck Berry 0°08′, Goldie Hawn 0°09′, Walter H. Diamond 0°11′, Alan Villiers 0°12′, Shirley Temple Black 0°24′, Rod Hunley 0°36′, Mary MacArthur 0°46′, Princess Eugenie 0°57′, Colleen McCullough 0°58′, George Bernard Shaw 1°00′, Kevin Kline 1°02′, Hilary Clinton 1°23′, Ryan O’Neal 1°26′.

Venus Square Pluto Dates

4 March 2015
20 November 2015
19 April 2016
11 September 2016
25 May 2017
27 October 2017
23 March 2018
26 August 2018
9 May 2019
1 October 2019
28 February 2020
15 November 2020
11 April 2021
5 September 2021
27 May 2022
20 October 2022

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3 thoughts on “Venus Square Pluto Natal and Transit

  1. This Venus in Pisces tried to love him (with Venus square Pluto) unconditionaly but the emotional abuse was just too much even for this Venus sign. At 63 he has yet to overcome his poor self image and is hitting the bottle instead of working on these issues. I will be thinking of him for a long time to come…….

  2. I suffered a tragic setback in a new relationship on 7th september with nearly end of the same. Maybe this transit was responsible. Any hope down the road to restore it Jamie?? I think pluto has created havoc this year for me.

    • Give it time Tina. The lunar eclipse on your Venus only happened a day or so ago. It will last for six months. Rememberyou have Venus trine Pluto so even though you feel things so deeply, you can transform your love life life more easily than others.

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