Venus Square Saturn Natal and Transit

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Venus Square Saturn TransitVenus square Saturn natal is one of the most challenging aspects of all. Two of the most important things in life are love and happiness, and these things seem even more important to you because they are more difficult to achieve than for other people. You will often feel like you are denied what you most want in life.

Feelings of rejection, isolation, and loneliness can start at an early age. How you deal with this throughout life depends greatly on how much love you received from your parents, especially your father. Along with love, you will have needed encouragement and support to boost your self-esteem. If you were subject to criticism or abuse, then this aspect will be harsher in adulthood, leading to bouts of depression.

Although square aspects are very challenging, they do present ample opportunities to improve on your weaknesses. The constant challenges and lessons about self-worth and love mean that with age, you can achieve the long-term happiness you strive for.

Take for example Dustin Hoffman with Venus square Saturn at a mere 0°01′ orb. When he left school and told his family about his dream to become an actor, his Aunt said “You can’t be an actor. You are not good-looking enough” [BBC Radio – Dustin Hoffman]. He did the hard yards and reached the top of his field which involves Venus self-image and beauty, how you project yourself.

The key to working through this aspect is self-love. If you let the criticisms and rejections take hold in your head, then these messages become reinforced. Erase that recording and replace it with positive messages such as “I am worthy of love” and things along that line.

Once you start to project a more positive self-image, then you will gain the confidence to make and maintain relationships. No longer will you hide your affections and miss out on opportunities for romance. No longer will you miss out on the feeling of being loved and valued.

Dustin Hoffman did experience a divorce, but his second marriage has lasted the periods of separation due to his career. He has a bag load of kids from both marriages and even grandkids now.

Venus Square Saturn Transit

Venus square Saturn transit can add stress to your love life because of delays, shyness, distance, or other relationship problems. Most of these hindrances will stem from your own fears or criticisms, but you may face the same from others.

To maintain harmony in relationships, it would be better to spend some time alone, but don’t ignore the affections and love of others either. Putting in the extra effort will reduce the risk of relationship dramas.

It is common under this influence to feel lonely and depressed, totally normal for human life. It will pass quickly and then you can get back to a harmonious and peaceful existence. Money can also be tight with this transit so avoid a tendency toward wasting money and other resources.

Although motivation may be lacking and you would prefer to be lazy, this transit may require hard work to maintain your present relationship, career, or other valued parts of life. This is no time to be ignoring your responsibilities, especially for loved ones. Although you will be feeling low and in need of love, someone close to you may lean on you for support and would be greatly disappointed if you let them down.

Venus Square Saturn Celebrities

Dustin Hoffman 0°01′, Franklin D, Roosevelt 0°02′, Queen Anne of Great Britain 0°10′, Oprah Winfrey 0°11′, King James I of England 0°30′, Robson Green 0°40′, Wes Craven 0°46′, Muhammad Ali 0°59′, Jim Jones 1°32′, Nigel Farage 1°34′, Michelle Pfeiffer 1°35′, Anthony Hopkins 1°50′, Charlotte Church 1°52′, Venus Williams 1°58′, Johnny Depp 3°00′.

Venus Square Saturn Dates

25 April 2021
17 September 2021
18 June 2022
7 November 2022
14 April 2023
1 January 2024
28 October 2024
1 August 2025

43 thoughts on “Venus Square Saturn Natal and Transit

  1. Icurrently have this venus square saturn for a few days right now and also in the bigger picture is Saturn trine Venus. Is this what they call a double transit ?

  2. I have a Grand Cross composed of Venus square Saturn, Venus opposed Pluto, Venus square Mars – never had a successful love relationship….started feeling isolated in kindergarten, dysfunctional parents. Plus I have a 2nd Grand Cross with Moon opposed Neptune, both squaring my ASC/DSC and Jupiter/Uranus conjunct in 12th house…..I truly don’t know how I’ve survived…..extremely lonely.

    • I understand how you feel.

      I’m somewhat in the same boat – I have a miserable stellium of Mars, Saturn, Pluto Conjunct, all three malefics retrograde and in the 7th house/Libra of relationships. And Venus squares all three! 🙁

      Venus square Pluto (almost exact), Venus square Saturn (3 degrees), Venus square Mars (7 degrees).

      Venus also opposes my North node, and NN is square the entire stellium, with saturn again squaring North North as an exact aspect.

      To me this all feels like having three separate T-square configurations, all hitting my Venus and my nodes. Pure, unadulterated hell.

      A couple of years ago Jamie told me that I had best learn about the squares to the nodes myself, but that I had a “very karmic” birth chart, and my soul’s evolution has been very heavy in this life due to all the retrogrades. Maybe your two grand crosses are also similar in that effect, what do you think? Sounds like it to me since your experience of lonliness mirrors mine.

      It’s brutal for sure, and the loneliness is soul destroying. The only thing that I have found which helps is trying to research on Soul contracts and Soul plans, and having past life regressions along with intense inner and spiritual work. I now try and look at my mostly miserable life as a way of being forced to turn inwards and learn to love myself. Sometimes we need other people to be removed from our lives in order to be forced to learn how to love ourselves deeply. (I hate this, but in hindsight it seems to make sense.)

      Self-love has been a hard won battle for me but as one slowly learns to love oneself, one finds that there are moments where the loneliness just vanishes. And strangely, new people seem to come into our lives, and where once there was a sense of having no one, people slowly start to appreciate us for who we are. Didn’t happen for me without inner work though, which has been hard to do.

      Please watch Teal Swans video on YouTube entitled The Lonliness Epdiemic, it’s about 1 hour 20 minutes long but it’s worth watching a few times over. It has helped me understand my deep lonliness and also how to work on not feeling so lonely. She speaks with the knowledge of one who understand intense lonliness herself and has tried to find ways to transform it. I wish you luck, hang in there!

      • Thank you for recommending Teal Swans video on YouTube. I also have Venus square Saturn, 0°32, and Venus square Moon and Saturn, 4 degrees orb. Never married, learned about self love.

  3. I have this. I was lonely as a child. Very shy.
    What helped me. The arts .
    To be expressive.
    I have a mixture of aspects. Pluto trine moon Is expressive.

    Very conflicting aspects. Sun trine Jupiter uranus and saturn.
    My moon also sextiles Venus..
    Sun sextile rising

    This aspect you literally re write your script.
    Venus Saturn. You may appear distant . uninvolved.
    Reality. Your own company feels the best.

    I have noticed harsh saturn. They are best friends with themselves. Huggers. No.
    Laughter yes.

    Guess whole chart

  4. I have Venus Square Saturn/south node 8 minutes orb. Venus is conjunct Neptune. I guess I am fortunate that venus is also a part of a grand trine, Jupiter/Moon conjunct, in 12th house and mars.

    My life was very hard, little love or happiness. I was lonely early in my life. After I read a book on lonliness when I was about 25, I was never really lonely again. I read over and over again her discription of loneliness in her own life. She was so accepting of lonliness and took all the shame of it away. It took the lonliness away. I haven’t been able to find the book again, it was something like “Living and Growing in lonliness” .

    I had the impression that lonliness should be shameful, or wrong in some way, but it is merely unpleasant, and totally normal.

    My spiritual life was quite wonderful, and if the lonliness started to come back, I read scripture and it immediately disappeared.

    I am spiritually lonely, but nothing that could be improved without a deep spiritual connection. I think this will improve with time.

    I reject what astrologers say about my not being loving. I was loving. One partner told me “we were closer and closer and closer, and I just needed to get away. It was too close, and I wanted to go back to when we were just casual.” That was a failed relationship, but it wasn’t me beling unloving.

    I felt like the world has never brought me a relationship that was really suitable for me, including the one I have been in for six years. My partner is a penniless street person who until recently wasn’t happy unless he was drunk, high, or asleep. I don’t drink. He is also mildly mentally retarded, although socially more skilled than I am. I stay in the relationship because it is extraordinarly comfortable. I believe this is because he is my astrological twin. He was born 12 hours after I was and has the same moon sign.

    He has a distressed venus, but is unaware of it. He considers constant prostitutes he had early in his life a sign of his physical attractiveness and found these quite satisfying relationships. However, he has occationally commented that I stay with him because I care about him, where the other women cared about him only while the money lasted.

    My life has been really extraordinarly hard. My partners life has likewise been extremely hard. I know two other astrological twins. One was dying of alcoholism at age 36, but didn’t die for another 8 years, although she did quit drinking.
    Another is in prison for her religious beliefs in Iran. These people also had very hard lives.

    This world says that being happy is the measure of a man’s worth, or having a longterm relationship, or children, or even great health but I don’t think that is true. I believe the greater success is measured by developing into a kind, truthful, trustworthy, empathetic and extremely generous person.

    I have been told my entire life that longterm relationships, health, success in career, and happiness are the most important things. I am a failure in every way the secular world says is important, and yet I feel like I am one of the most fortunate people who has ever lived. I doubt anyone who have not experienced significant hardship can know the sweetest things that life can bring.

    I am experiencing my second saturn return, but I’ve felt like one of the most fortunate people who ever lived for about 15 years.

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