Venus Square Pluto Natal and Transit

Venus Square Pluto Transit

Venus square Pluto maximum orb 4°00′.

Venus square Pluto natal complicates your close relationships because of the intensity of your feelings. Not your general mood and feelings, but how you feel and show love and affection. This intensity can show as infatuation or stalking when you become attracted to someone. You simply fall deeply in love, but sometimes your behavior can be threatening or overbearing to others, especially while you are young.

With age comes the ability to hide the more negative behaviors. But to have your goals for true mutual love fulfilled, you must transform, not hide, those destructive behaviors. These negative behaviors mainly center around gaining total control of the relationship so that you need not feel insecure or worried it might end. So Venus square Pluto can result in manipulative behavior like jealousy, guilt trips or possessiveness.

Using your power to force someone to love you will ultimately end in a breakup, which of course, would be extremely painful and dramatic for you. But it is only through such intense relationships that you gain self-awareness of your manipulative or controlling behaviors. Then you can use your immense power to positively transform how you give and receive love. This process may be painful because you will realize that self-love is the real issue. Once you learn how to love yourself, the unconditional love and approval you seek will be at hand.

Before you realize the need for self-love, you may be attracted to dangerous partners or those who mistreat you. You may be attracting such types subconsciously because of your poor self-image.

Venus Square Pluto Transit

Venus square Pluto transit can have a profound effect on your love life. Power and control issues may arise in existing relationships. Simmering tension may surface as some manipulative behavior like jealousy or possessiveness. At the root of such behaviors would be a deeply buried fear or insecurity about not feeling loved or valued. Of course, you may be subject to such behaviors from a partner.

Threats and ultimatums are possible if either partner feels smothered or controlled. An unhealthy relationship may break down, which would be very painful or dramatic. A well-based relationship will withstand the intensity of this transit. In this case, some kind of transformation would still be undertaken within the dynamics of the relationship.

New love is possible now and could seem like an instant attraction. However, you must also realize that such an infatuation may lead to an abusive or violent attachment.

Venus Square Pluto Celebrities

Camila Cabello 0°02′, Juliane Koepcke 0°02′, Chuck Berry 0°07′, Alfred, Duke of Saxe-Coburg 0°07′, Goldie Hawn 0°08′, Geri Halliwell 0°10′, Manly P. Hall 0°10′, Walter H. Diamond 0°11′, Alan Villiers 0°12′, Shirley Temple 0°24′, George Takei 0°24′, Ed O’Neill 0°28′, Swami Kriyananda 0°32′, Rod Hunley 0°35′, Kris Jenner 0°45′, Mary MacArthur 0°45′, Lana Turner 0°47′, Britney Spears 0°51′, Morgan Freeman 0°55′, Princess Eugenie 0°51′, Alexis Arquette 0°58′, Josef Schovanec 0°59′, Maria von Trapp 1°00′, George Bernard Shaw 1°00′, Kevin Kline 1°02′, Bob Woodward 1°06′, Michael Moore 1°06′, Sid Vicious 1°15′, Hillary Clinton 1°23′, Dua Lipa 1°24′, Ryan O’Neal 1°26′, Justin Timberlake 1°36′, Julian Assange 1°41′, Jack Nicholson 1°47′, Larry Flynt 1°53′.

Venus Square Pluto Dates

March 16, 2023
December 3, 2023
May 1, 2024
September 22, 2024
June 9, 2025
November 7, 2025
April 3, 2026
September 15, 2026
October 20, 2026
December 9, 2026

17 thoughts on “Venus Square Pluto Natal and Transit

  1. This Venus in Pisces tried to love him (with Venus square Pluto) unconditionaly but the emotional abuse was just too much even for this Venus sign. At 63 he has yet to overcome his poor self image and is hitting the bottle instead of working on these issues. I will be thinking of him for a long time to come…….

  2. I suffered a tragic setback in a new relationship on 7th september with nearly end of the same. Maybe this transit was responsible. Any hope down the road to restore it Jamie?? I think pluto has created havoc this year for me.

    • Give it time Tina. The lunar eclipse on your Venus only happened a day or so ago. It will last for six months. Rememberyou have Venus trine Pluto so even though you feel things so deeply, you can transform your love life life more easily than others.

  3. Oh dear.. 2 weeks ago I met my cousin (I never grew up with him). He wanted contact with the family again. When we met there was an instant attraction between us. I have a partner and kids.
    We feel a lot and deep for eachother even romantically. We know it’s not right. Last week we were drunk and kisses and such.. hè slept beside me. Since then it feels obsessed.. cant eat, my whole body feels Electric. When we see eachother it’s tooo intense and hot. We are in eachother heads and emotions. When we see eachother we are shaking and nervous.
    So Ive done a compatibility chart. We have pluto square venus.
    Now hè gets drunk most nights and one hand he’s understanding to stop I feel I cant breathe.. and then he’s threatening me.. saying things like im his, he’s going to take me (sexually), Im not allowed to walk out of his life anymore. Blurting things out like tell the whole family! Im quite scared and overwhelmed with this unexpected impact on my life! I dont know what to do… Yeah I want distance.
    He’s been in prison before for hitting his ex.
    I can’t talk to anybody about this. I feel physically Ill and hè feels madly in love.
    What can I do?

    • LEAVE. FAST. On a spiritual level this is toxic old energy, possibly a karmic issue unresolved. Be straight with your partner before its too late. He deserves your honesty

    • Put distance between you. Cut off contact. Any contact. Involve a family member, religious person, a cop, a lawyer. Any figure of authority you can think of. Not to be alone. I’m serious. You can’t fight this lone. Ask for help. Make it clear you want no contact with him. And stick to it. Move away nor go away for a while. Be honest with your home partner and tell him you want to win this with him.
      Also, read about “How to get over a Narcissist person” ( start with Google), it may shed additional light on how to handle this. Best of luck

  4. Hello 🙂 I have an art exhibition opening the day after this transit: my first show – paintings and performance dealing with the sacred feminine, female power, female dominance. I’m now wondering how this transit may work with the success and reception of this exhibition. Was this good timing? I’m kind of thinking the themes of venus and pluto combined with the new moon might work in my favour, despite the square aspect? (Fingers crossed!) I hesitate to ask a direct question on your site as you must be so busy answering people and I’m usually just grateful to come on here and get the lowdown on everything that’s coming up, aspect-wise. So: thank you very much for your page, and all the useful information 🙂

  5. I have natal Venuns in 2nd house Leo square Pluto in Scorpio. Our chart also has a loose Venus square Pluto…. he’s Pluto…
    Will I ever be free on this obsession? He appears not to love me, and yet I distinctly feel as though I am not allowed to leave it either. I’m beginning to wonder if I am mad, in fact I am certain that I am. Is this just life now?? wtf…

  6. Can you please do Pluto conjunct Venus transit?! Love your site and visit multiple times a month. Especially appreciate your new, Full Moon and mercury retrograde posts.

  7. Well, as someone with a 10th house Taurus Venus squaring a first house Pluto conjunct the ascendant, I should be totally messed up in relationships. What I’ve notices though is that people high up in organizations take a shine to me causing jealousy from other employees who feel i didn’t do anything to deserve anyone’s favor so my energy is trying to find out how to keep people from feeling that threatened. Not always successful as some of them were just true sharks. When I ran into those I generally just walked away from the position and found another. Any suggestions as to why my Pluto/Venus should express itself that way?

  8. Hi Jamie,
    Out of curiosity, what I can expect if venus transit is also making a conjunction to natal pluto (conjunct IC 22.12) and activating the natal square Pluto – venus…. I feel like it will be explosive but could it bring something positive? .. worry about the fact that it will also be an aspect of my solar return? Any tips on how to handle this? Thanks!!

  9. I have this aspect with an orb of (0°18′)

    And i also read that this aspect can cause someone to be paranoid, (i am) is that true?

  10. The description of the unfiltered reactions between the two planets in a square was pretty accurate. The rest of the chart will show how the energy will eventually be used. Turned mine into nurturing and getting my rewards from seeing the loved one appreciate the gestures. Nope, it most definitely did not turn into a “please him” attitude…but it was nice to see that I could bring occasional happiness to a person’s life. I DID have power balance issues early on but gradually discovered that power struggle didn’t work at all, so looked for other ways to express that emotion. Not just with my loved one but with family, friends and strangers too. Still have a lot to learn in all aspects of life but working that one issue to something positive is a good thing. PS natal Pluto is exact conjunct my Leo Ascendent, Venus in Taurus 10th.

  11. This harsh aspect sounds like a “great” element of my solar return on May 26th, whem Venus and the Moon are both square Pluto.I am so tired of bad manipulative women in my life.

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