Saturn opposite Sun transit can be a draining time because you are more likely to feel weighed down and pessimistic about the challenges and blockages to your progress. These tests which we all go through seem more serious and more numerous during this transit and are likely to make you feel more burdened and restricted in your freedom or self-expression.
These challenges to your will or ego can come from people who are very difficult to fight against, such as parents, bosses, anyone with some authority over your life. This is why it can be so frustrating, you have to struggle on through the boring routines even though you may want to break free.
This period can be a low point but it is important to remember that it is probably happening for a reason. It may be that your ambitions are being held back at the moment because the timing is not right. There may be some more lessons or skills to learn so that when this transit passes you are ready to take full advantage of new opportunities.
The Sun rules your self-esteem and your ego, so this may be low during this time, better to stay patient, focus on hard work and look after yourself, play it low-key for a while. Saturn opposite Sun transit is time to strengthen your character by facing any adversity head-on which will give you more confidence in the future.
Saturn Opposite Sun Transit Dates
| Sign and Decan | From | To |
|---|---|---|
| Leo Decan 1 | March 2020 | December 2021 |
| Leo Decan 2 | March 2021 | December 2022 |
| Leo Decan 3 | March 2022 | March 2023 |
| Virgo Decan 1 | March 2023 | March 2024 |
| Virgo Decan 2 | March 2024 | February 2025 |
| Virgo Decan 3 | February 2025 | February 2026 |
| Libra Decan1 | May 2025 | January 2027 |
| Libra Decan 2 | May 2026 | April 2027 |
| Libra Decan 3 | April 2027 | April 2028 |
| Scorpio Decan 1 | April 2028 | March 2029 |
| Scorpio Decan 2 | July 2028 | March 2030 |
| Scorpio Decan 3 | June 2029 | May 2030 |
In essence its limiting. But then there is the other element of learnng to deal with limitation and this is why saturn is also known as The King Maker – although the conjunction probably better for a good king. There are some lousy kings in history!!
Do you remember when Linford Christie was competing to retain his OLympic gold medal? He was disqualified after three false starts. Saturn was directly opposite his sun. It will literaly stop you dead in your tracks.
What a perfect example of the frustration of Saturn opposite the Sun. Another angle on it is that work can get in the way of everything. Hard for Aries who wants to play!
I didn’t know that about Linford Christie, great example!
Actually, I might have made a mistake, I think it was conjunct… Will look again.
It was conj so this belongs in the other post!
Or not since that’s Uranus conj Sun!
Bah… I’m going back to sleep! Have not adjusted to the South Atlantic anomaly yet… Part of brain still in Northern Hemisphere!
Oh, I think I still have jetlag one week after coming back to Australia. That’s my excuse anyway!
yes yes and yes. Had this up until October 2011 and it was extremely depressing – never so near collapse from pain and lack of sleep in my life. And never so frustrated at how SLOW the process was. I was recovering from a car accident (still not done) and had to take the firm I work for through a new business formation and new partner. Also – with sun in eighth ended up having to see a psych for ptsd and it was like Alice going down the proverbial rabbit hole. Ended up being a lot of emotional processing (more work) as trauma was tied into all the emotional stuff going on at time of accident. So – heavy work in many ways while being physically very weighed down by injury. Was working hard at recovery as well which required a lot of discipline. Very insightful – perfect frustration and stopped dead in my tracks!!! Uber – you did it again 🙂
wow…I am also recovering from a car accident, and everything got crazy at work where we now fear for our jobs. Relationships have gradually taken on a frustrating quality, getting over a big heartbreak…am usually a happy person but this has been a frustrating time.
I’m a 22 deg. Aries.
Oh yes not to mention the Sun in Libra joining Saturn in opposing my Sun.
But I’m thankful for my other posative transits going on. (like SunTrineMars,MoonTrineMars,MercuryTrineVenus!)
But yes the weekend I was really feeling this opposition!
From people getting on my nerves at work, to my date plans getting canceled due to car trouble…and feeling like I couldn’t get any thing done around the house.
But I did learn stuff.
I was also born with Saturn Squaring my Sun. (People tell me I don’t look like an Aries.)
But on the bright side Saturn Sextiles my Moon.
Spot on with what has been going on under this transit. I have also had pluto square pluto (unless I am wrong) which is another very trying transit. Glad this one is over this month and some positive transits forecast. Taking care of myself has involved sleeping way more than the average person and way more than I usually do, figured have to sleep rather than have nervous exhaustion! Also lot less energy for things like the gym so my weight has ballooned lately (perhaps progressed sun in taurus, taurus likes their food!)
Sleeping more than usual sounds spot on. Sun is vitality and Saturn does wear you down. I had Sun opposite my Saturn today and went back to bed for a few hours.
…..a lighthouse at night in silence, a deep quarry lined with quartz in brilliant starlight, a hermit polishing an obsidian mirror, a politician daily checking his vault full of diamonds and gold, a temple filled with the sound of heavy industry, a prisoner remembering his inner child being embraced by his father, a sundial made from the hands and face of an old stopped clock…..
I have Saturn conjunct Moon as well as my daughter , sister , and Mother .It runs in the family so it must be karma .
Oh my goodness! That is really stunning family synastry, never heard of anything like this before.
I have the same thing ofa Saturn cojuct my Moon,my mother,my father and 3 kids of mine are all with the square of that same Moon and Saturn. My life is a very hard walk by my chart in general,because on top of all that I have a Big Cross of squares and oppositions of Saturn-Moon; Moon-Mars;Mars-Neptune:Mercury and Mars….So many talents, beaty ,education and intelligence-BUT NOT ONE ACHIEVEMENT desired by an Arien wirh rising Pieces and the conjust of Saturn-Moon on my accedant….OBSTICLES on every single corner…Inner and emotional pain all my life. I feel like its a chronic blockage of any project that I go through,relationships,etc.etc…Harsh living with wanting play like an Arien but ending up at a Nowhere…So,my kids chart are really good charts and I can tell it already by looking them growing into older teens.But I am still wondering…is it KARMIC Moon-Saturn aspects which follows my whole family or its just a coinciedence?
I am a 25 degree Aries with a 20 degree Aries Rising…I guess I should climb under a rock for a year. Ugh.
Lori – make the rock a crystal and see where that takes you!!!
Ooops I lied… I am a 13 degree Aries rising!
Uranus doesn’t get to 13 degrees Aries till 2014 so you have some time before your crystal experience, something to look forward to!
You know what…I am a double Aries…I CAN DO THAT! <3
* Business/job ….
THIS IS THE END OF A 29-YEARS CYCLE , AND THERE ARE APT TO BE MANY ENDINGS IN YOUR LIFE , SOON THERE WILL BE A TIME OF BEGINNINGS . MEAN-WHILE , YOUR ENERGIES ARE LOW , AND YOU`LL PROBABLY FEEL DISCOURAGED . OTHERS MAY OPPOSE YU OR CIRCUMSTANCES FRUSTRATE YOU . ITS NOT LIKELY YOU´II ATTAIN ANY OF YOUR GOALS NOW . BE PATIENT AND DONT STRUGGLE TOO MUCH . THIS TOO , SHALL PASS .
LOVE AND MARRIGE ….
THIS IS A TIME OF ENDLINGS IN YOUR LIFE , AND IT MAY INCLUDE THE END OF SOME RELATIONSHIPS , ESPECIALLY ANY THAT HAVE BEEN LIMITING TO YOU . BE PATIENT , A TIME OF BEGINNINGS WILL COME SOON .
Thank you for the information…I know this is the truth although it does not sound too encouraging.
Hi lori , thank you, it was as little so .
I (28 deg Aries) am moving into an “antisocial” phase where I have no need for a partner, or for friends or family around me, and all I care about is my personal projects. I am quite content with my own company. I have become almost completely emotionless, have stopped caring about everything except my creative pursuits, and have become a completely maddening flake – I have had enough of too much responsibility, and am focusing exclusively on myself and my own needs.
I do take the “restrictive” influence with a pinch of salt, since I refuse to believe that anyone has the power to restrict me. I am pretty sensible in my assessment of what is realistic, so I just set my personal goals and get on with them – I was in a relationship with a Scorpio for a while, who taught me that recognition by the outside world didn’t really matter, and I have to say it has been helpful to me, as I can just get on with life and do what I enjoy without my soul being in thrall to other people.
I have also been through experiences in the past year with social groups that have taught me what I am, and am not prepared, to accept, and have grown something of an elephant hide. I am on the verge of giving one particular activity up, as it no longer serves any purpose in my life. So I don’t see the influence as restrictive – just another obvious period of growth.
I think this is the way forwards. Saturn is the kingmaker – it can restrict but it builds too. I can totally relate to where you’re coming from. Most interaction is just mindless reaction. Well done you.
Right on!
Hi!
I do feel the burden! I am an aries 27° 24´ in 10th house. And a cancer ascendant 9° 14´. So! Saturn opposing sun and squaring ascendant. Not even my pretty and otherwise funny moon in sagitarius is helping much. My bosses at work restrict me. Promotion was given to others. And at home, children are asking for opportunities that I am not able to afford, to give. Restriction, again. I feel sad and my brain feels in void. I would not have a hint to bring my self out of this situation. I read that we are to be patient and to take it easy, walking in these low profile modes. I think there is not a choice! God Blesses us all!
RÃn.
WOW, so interesting to read these. I have my sun at 27’35 Aries (10th house), Moon at 29’51 Pisces (9th House), and Ascendant at 19’35 Cancer. I also have Venus retrograde conjunct Mercury in the 10th house between 6 and 7 Aries, with only a ’21 degree distance between them. My moon is pretty closely conjunct my Midheaven, which is at 1’56 Aries.
I got a lot going on.
Looks like I’ll be having Saturn opposite my soon this year at the same time I’ve got Uranus conjunct my moon/midheaven. Any insight from anyone on how this will affect things?
I dropped out of law school in Cincinnati about two months ago. I had completed the first year successfully, and with good grades, but more and more, I realized I didn’t want to be a lawyer at all. I wanted to be a writer. So I took one of the hugest risks of my life, left law school, hightailed it out of Ohio and moved to Colorado about a month and half ago.
Prior to that move, my story was EXACTLY like Calli’s above; I mean creepily so. I became a hermit, pretty much. I had been kinda the “bell of the ball” in law school, partied all the time, dated a zillion dudes at once, and had to be loved by everyone. Then I dated a Scorpio who caused me to take a deeper look at myself and stop being a slave constantly seeking validation from others.
Recently, things have started to pick up speed for me. I’m a finalist to be on a Sundance reality show with my gay best friend, which would help me gain some publicity to hopefully get a book deal. I’m writing a humorous book for women about avoiding the whole hating-yourself-into-a-bad-marriage,-career,-and-life thing that seems to happen to a lot of us 20-something gals. I want to give other women the kind of empowerment I have come into and encourage them to ditch their fears and have faith in their own talents and intuition.
Additionally, my boyfriend (the sage Scorpio) is in talks with the city government of NYC to manage a big public art project there for summer 2013, and I have agreed to do some grant-writing for that, which should bring in some income if the show doesn’t pan out.
Right now, my finances are tight as hell and I don’t have a “real” job because of the other potential/pending life developments. Additionally, I have been dealing with a huge physical and spiritual separation from my family for the first time in my life, and that kind been a little difficult, but it has been a very, very positive development for my own personal growth. Like Calli, I’m relatively isolated for the first time, but it feels good. It feels necessary, and like I can finally just be myself.
My basic question is: things have kinda never been better, hahaha! So what gives? Have I just not hit the doom-and-gloom part yet? I keep reading that this month is supposed to see a whole lot of new and lucrative career developments for me, and that would make sense with everything going on, but should I brace myself for a whole lot of rejections and disappointments?
Is a Saturn-Sun transit any easier on you if you are already spiritually aware of/workin on the “lesson” you’re supposed to learn by the time the transit hits?
Thanks for reading, guys, and good luck to all my fellow Aries!! Remember to tap into that Aries courage and willpower when the chips are down, guys. We’re the little fireflies of the world, even when our lights are momentarily out!
Some astrologers believe that Saturn opposite anything can be positive because it is the furthest away it can be from said planet. Also I have noticed that when a transiting planet aspects anything in your chart it will activate the same planet(in this case Saturn)in your natal chart. So expect it to manifest wherever you have it your natal chart as well as issues related to the house the transiting planet is in of course. I hope this is helpful. I do believe your spiritual awareness is significant as well.
I’m interested in the fact that you are dating a scorpio. I started texting and telephonically speaking with my first love on 9/2/2011, we were with each other for two weekends shortly thereafter (we live 8 hours apart), once again the intenseness was AWESOME (unfortunately I broke his heart 42 years ago), and then by October 12th he stops the “lovie dovie” texting (even though his last one stated.. “.. you starting to appreciate what we have…”. Long story short, he did the typical Scorpio thing and almost vanished. I could add several examples of why I know he had not changed how he felt, but got “scared” because he had been so vulnerable and open with me. So, now it is in “friendship status” and we have not talked, texted or emailed in close to 6 weeks. My spiritual guide tells me (as well as multiple others) that he will call… just be patient. Do you have any words of encouragement? Thanks.
Best wishes Erica! That was great, thanks for the inspiration. Follow your dreams. Now I feel like all my issues this transit are normal. Loved hearing from all the fellow aries 🙂 -Nancy
I don’t like this aspect though i can learn a lot of it. My sun is on the first degree of taurus in 7. The opposition is not yet exact. I can feel it on my relation. A dark cloud, but also a ferm lesson. Don’t possess or control, let it flow, concentrate on the light in the relation, take it serious
Saturn opposed my sun when my son was nearing a year old, in late 2010-early 2011. I had gained a lot of weight from my pregnancy, was lethargic and depressed, my relationship had bit the dust. It took me a very long time to realize just how down I was – the times in my life that anything has gotten me down for so long have been very rare! What I remember most, though, was FEAR. I was so insecure and fearful of the future, and just saw death and bereavement in every card and every transit. Paralysing fear. In hindsight it dawned on me that old Saturn was transiting opposite my Aries sun and conjunct Pluto (house 8/2). At the time, it was just awful. I’m quite glad that transit is over! Now, Saturn will square my moon while Pluto squares my Sun and Uranus conjuncts it… I’ll enjoy the respite from the outer planets while I can!
I don’t understand the degrees or anything you lovely ladies are talking about. How do you figure that out? All I know is that I’m an Aries. I was born April 11th at 3:15 at the morning. Can anyone tell me what degree/house I’m in and if my year is going to get better? please? I’d appreciate it greatly. Thanks!
Each decan encompasses 10 degrees. Each sign has 3 decans and encompasses 30 degrees. 12 signs X 30 degrees = 360 degrees completing the circle so to speak.
Go here and click on Birth Chart and enter you information and you will find your answer.
http://interactive.0800-horoscope.com/
BTW – The sun is opposite Saturn for me too right now, just like you, and it sucks. Can’t wait for October 2012.
Me either, Wayne. Can´t wait until October… but then Saturn will be in my 5th house, NN. And I will still have transits related to Saturn. I have to learn, though I only hope to be auto-constructive and not end eating my self within, by being a perfecitionist (quite Saturnian) with me or with others.
Mhhh.
R.
Well im an aries decan 3. Saturn entered my 7th house and completely re-arranged my love life, well I dont have a love life anymore but thats ok. Now I have started a business but I have been hit by major obstacles and cant seem to focus. I am hoping things get better when Saturn enters my 8th house. Lets hope.
I am like you, Decan 3 Aries wondering what the hell happened to my love life even though I played by the rules and did my absolute best. Hopefully when October 2012 comes, something good will happen for both of us!!
geezus I’m having the same kind of year… 3rd decan aries.. my relationship totally tanked this year during the summer and it had started out more promising than most and honestly we had a great level of things in common and understanding.. It blows my mind how it blew right up this summer. Forget about the financials and job frustrations they too have been really upended and strained.
anyway I have no illusions about getting back together but I’m looking forward to not hurting so much and moving on. Possibly even leaving the state.
Read More remedy gem stone and effect of Saturn
http://9starsmagic.com/Saturn.php
my DOB is 12 April, i have physically faced and felt the “Saturn Opposite Sun Transit “. it started in last week of Oct 2011 following seriese of disasters. first i had to go on unexpected journey, then i very unusual medical problem (while eating ,bone was stucked into my throat) and dealt with medical proccedure/operation.sudden after this in mid of November i got fired from my job and despite of extreme efforts i couldn’t find a new source of income, my financial situation start getting worst.within two months i decided to change the place. from March to April i travelled to two countries but didn’t get job. amazingly, i am still out of job…………… so long unemployment has effected my personality, livings, family and much more. now i am working on something and hopeful that in month of september/october i will get some source of income, in fact very good source of income. in last 10 months i my life has turned 180 degree….. just waiting when this viscious saturn opposite sun transit will over.
My birthday is the same day. Wow that’s rough. Makes me feel blessed to have Aqua Mars 23 degrees to have Saturn trine that to balance out that Sun opposition. I was in some bad relationships, and had more friend drama than I’m used to. Finally met a guy that brings out the best in me. But according to cafe astrology it will be done opposing our Sun September 1st.
But it sounds like you finally got rewarded for all those hard times.
I just posted above but had about the same things happen around the same time starting late aug early sept.. I got hurt in weird ways.. got bit by a dog on my hand in sept, slipped down stairs, went through getting hours cut in a move to get me to quit my job.. my gf suddenly wanted to split up in nov.. and then we did permanently in july.. it has been an awful mind boggling year. Oh yeah and no matter what i did could not gain a track with some gainful employment.. money has been really bad. Oh that is one of the reasons I got left.. too lazy didn’t work enough. so so annoying. I can’t wait for this year to totally be over.
I am also Aries dec 3. My Libra man walked out without a word back in January (yes – literally disappeared for a month) after more than 25 years – and I am now left with a house that won’t sell, bills I can’t pay and so much misery and depression like you wouldn’t believe. ROLL ON OCTOBER!!
I don´t always stay at this low profile attitude I should, and when I open my mouth is to disturb atmosphere… I´m feeling not good, to say the least and I would like to fly to december when a beautiful trine Saturn Asc Cancer, will show pretty things.
I just hope I am able to endure. I don´t know where I read that we should die consciously, and to bring the light of conciousness into what we have to change. We should not resist it. We should learn of it.
Which reminds me of inflation… My Sun is inflated. It conj. Venus. And it also trines Pluto, sextiles Lillith and trines Galact. Center. Though, this thing about getting quite uncontrolled and to seem odd to others (squares Uranus) and to be confused all the time (opposes nept.) is not a nice thing to live, really.
Hope energies bring me to the rainbow and that I will be better, then…
Mhhh!
Mt.
Oh! My bones and teeth hurt too! (saturnian forces comming!). Well! Mt.
I completely understand ALL of you! Aries born April 15th and this year could not be over soon enough! Hope it gets better for all of us 🙂
You bet, Kristine!
:S
So! JemoN, on the counting, we are on the reverse 49?
So! 48!
So when will us aries catch a break? I feel lost and lonely. I think about suicide a lot, but know that’s the coward’s way out. I can even afford a psychic so I can possibly get a glimmer if hope. I’m at my wit’s end! When will this be over?!
I am a DOUBLE ARIES! April 16th…I am soooo hoping that I can catch a break. I truly feel like there are going to be some BIG changes coming up for me and my ARIES Husband ( April 9 – 2nd decan ). We have been feeling like its just the 2 of us against the world!
Now I have to worry about Saturn going into Scorpio ( and I have Neptune in Scorpio in the 8th ).
Can we ever catch a break???
Wee you Aries guys finally get the break after this long transit. Saturn enters Scorpio on Friday the 5th of October 2012.
Oh thank god! it has been exhausting for me personally…life totally transformed whether I liked it or not….but truly greatful to you both & your great Dark Star Astrology site…it really has been a staff along the path…a light in the dark! Thanks guys…keep on shining x….ps roll on October!
Yes Jamie! Seems like getting better! (I hope also wiser).
Just a pair of accomodations, and we will feel free and optimist, lively and direct (as always!), though, with some sordina -like when playing a piano.
Thanks!
RocÃo!
Oh yay! Except…. as Saturn enters Scorpio it will oppose my Chiron and square my Leo moon. :l I think I’ll just keep my eyes on 2014. Haha 😀
I wouldn’t be worried about the transit to Chiron but I don’t like the sounds of Saturn square Moon, yuk. I tend to feel them more than Saturn transits to Sun.
I have a Leo moon friend – for how long will Saturn be opposing his moon?
I’m Aries dec 3 and since Nov 2011 life has been an uphill struggle. It’s been a really bad year, especially to do with love.
Things will get a lot easier soon for Aries, Saturn enters Scorpio on October the 6th 2012.
Like I said… I have Neptune in Scorpio in the 8th…Saturn hitting there isn’t going to make it any easier..right? 😉
I think by the time Saturn comes up to your Neptune, it will be well away from opposing your Sun. I’m guessing your Sun is about 26 degrees Aries being born on April 16, and transiting Saturn right now is 26 degrees Libra. This is about as difficult as it is going to get for you. By next week you will feel the heaviness lifting. By the time Saturn goes over your Neptune, you will be feeling fine, and that transit in not nearly so personal as this one, no where near the strength.
Thank you for the insight. I sure do hope you are right. I can read for others of course, but not interpret for my self!
I’m the same, still check in for readings from an astrologer I first saw 12 years ago.
Just checking in with you Jamie to let you know that things have lightened up a bit. I know I have a lot of losses coming up this year, but at least I have adjusted my attitude and I am seeing that the light at the end of the tunnel doesn’t always have to be a train! 😉
Hi
am cusp Aries /Taurus , since last year facing lots of professional problems. when will it end ?
My birthday is April 16th, and 2012 has been a HORRIBLE year! Will
things improve after October 5th?
This is welcome news, my birthday is April 10, horrible year for love too! Looking for things to ease up a little…my moon is in Scorpio, Virgo rising , & venus in Pisces. Thanks!
I’m born April 12th, so experiencing this until October 2012. It’s been a tough ride. I’m self-employed and my sales were cut in half for half the year (also had Mars retrograding my 2nd house, which may have compounded that), and to top off a tough few years with all the important people in my life, one of my best friends (once a potential partner) totally blew up back in August, soon after the Mars / Saturn conjunction, and ended our friendship following months of seething resentment on their part, without any real explanation of what I actually did wrong. It was a relief in a way, because I just couldn’t get to the bottom of it, but left me heartbroken. Energy levels went very low, I do a lot of running, always keep stats and in addition to an ankle injury that’s still lingering from late June my performance is considerably worse than any previously recorded. Fortunately things have improved financially, and I can feel my energy returning slowly, but there’s something that seems very unfinished about the business with my friend, so if there’s any chance we can sort that out when the climate is easier, I’d be really, really happy.
I just realised I have Saturn opposing my Moon now. My moon is at 1 Taurus, so that’ll be exact as soon as Saturn moves into Scorpio. Haha!
Thanks a lot..like you said, very true, I feel totally trapped and frustrated being controlled by parents who are not approving of my first relationship..and inspite of enough trying I had to give up but deep down I feel enforced entrapped which is making moving on all the more difficult as I don’t have the legit reasons to quit it myself…am badly stuck I knw and don’t knw for how long..can’t even believe that it ll be posbl to move on in the real sense…just less apprehensions or sadness is what I can hope the time to bring, post this Saturn transit…
If anyone can help me any further on the readings, am 31st march, 1985 born, 9:10 IST, with Gemini rising I blv…undergoing that nasty Uranus transit, then this Saturn (which am told is leaving 7th house finally)..plus Pluto square Sun…why me?? Am tired ..
9 10 am
I have Moon in Leo and Venus in Aries I believe..
Will Saturn square my Leo Moon..is this going to do any good to me…pls help..
How will Neptune and Sun be related?
I have Uranus in seventh house too, don’t think any good an happen to me… I don’t like the traditional n conventional things…and being forced with someone new in an arranged match gvs me jitters…I hv cm to knw u7 are divorce prone…am trapped totally, don’t think I shudder ve gvn up for the first relationship by as I say, it’s being forced upon n I can’t do anything..feels il be trapped for life..:((((((((((( help pls, show me some light….
I think when Sayurnchanges signs soon they will notice. Particulrly the Taureans with early birthdays.
I just read your other post – Uranus 7th house – no, you won’t have a conventional partner or relationships – but to ease your expectations, ask yourself who makes the rules for conventions? People have all manner of relationships! They are not all about happy families. They work in their own way. Uranus in the 7th needs a lot of space and often finds itself in relationships where they have no choice but to be in that space – when Uranus began to transit my 7th I married someone who travelled a lot and had a lot of problems and had a relationship with someone who was 4,000 miles away from me. I learned to really appreciate my own space! I learned not to be emotionally dependent. Its a good strong place to be in!
Hi Missmudpie,
When I was in ashes, I had to start in a very small place, doing small things everyday. I could not dream of being in liberty, or to accomplish my dreams. I felt broken. Myself, was a good way to start. With small things, very little. Liking me and giving me the best I could, knowing I could not very much. Do you have inner child workshops there where you live? That would be a good start! And sorround yourself with water, white and yellow flowers. Go to nature. BE with yourself. Then… things might be looked at from different perspectives.
Good luck!
RocÃo.
That is excellent advice Rocio!
🙂
Nice meeting you over here, UQW!
RocÃo.
Just to bump it..seems nobody noticed this topic..
@ UQOW
I basically am afraid coz I read somewhere that u7 people don’t have happy relationships..they have difficulte relationships in their life wch made me feel paranoid…the transit is as such coz I have been anything but paranoid in my life until I experience this negativity, frustration, unable to control my life no matter hw much I want to, feeling doomed and blog that things are going to worsen only, everyday is passing like a living hell the moment am left alone even for a second..am scred and totlly unwilling to enter any relationship now…am full of pprehenions…
Bless you missmudpie, it’s awful having feelings like this. But don’t give up! You’ve got yourself into a negative loop. Thoughts and beliefs set up reactions inside and a cycle of fears and frustrations follows.
You can get free of this.
Ask yourself where you want to go with what you believe about life and relationships. Control is not always possible, at times, surrender is better and acceptance of what you can’t control. U7 I has it’s upside. You learn not to be a captive and not to hold people captive. You learn to find yourself and not be moulded into another’s shape. This is a base which has huge value. It may not feel that way yet. Have you considered hypnotherapy to break negative thought patterns? You don’t have to be at the mercy of overpowering emotions. Uranus in 7 can teach you mastery and how to reach your real individuation.
Don’t believe every thing you read! saying “Uranus in the 7th is unhappy relationships” is just bad and lazy astrology. I have it in the 4th, does that mean an unhappy domestic life, or relationship with father? Unhappy sometimes, but isn’t everyones occasionally?, UNUSUAL, eccentric oh yes! But my Uranus squ AC loves it.
You actually NEED unusual relationships, space and all the things UQW said, subconsciously you are attracting and looking for people who give you that. If you had a guy who was possessive and wanted you 24/7 believe me you would soon be screaming to get out of it.
Jamie and I have Uranus in the 7th. Ofcourse we met on mySPACE, it is long distance, we are Astrologers, we are individuals, bla bla all good Uranian stuff. Bad we are separated by 10000 miles, we hope it won’t be forever. We hope to prove that Uranus in the 7th doesn’t mean permanent separation.
I believe we have to spend this time apart 1st in order for us and our children to individuate. We have had co-dependant relationships in the past. I think the Universe has to make sure we are do not fall into that trap again before we join full time. Maybe this is the same for you missmudpie? That is the lesson of Uranus in the 7th. Its not a “bad thing”. NOTHING in anyones chart is a “bad thing” if one is conscious of it and works hard at ones own souls evolution. It’s a gift. I really believe that!
The feeling that I my not get what is appropriate for me..the space or whatever it is..is killing..I will hv to live with it though..just cnt bring up myself on terms with this fact…
Thanks all for their insight into this matter and help..
missmudpie
Seems it’s a very challenging time for you, with all these intense feelings coming up. I believe searching for a good therapist in your area and speaking with him/her may well take much of the pressure off; it’ll give you space to breathe and see where you want to go from there. And I also think RocÃo’s advice is really nice.
Oh, those times when we are like in a vertiginous tornado, ah, missmudpie!
We all have live them, and they may appear in the most unexpected moment. Life is a great master and sometimes takes the floor under our feet away, so we may know a bit better who we are and how we do things.
Then, we have to know better, in order to find our way to stabilize us. Now, in your notes, I recon a tone which is much more in contact with your self. For me, writing is very useful, when I feel this unmanagment of my inner forces, emotions, passions, feelings… what a mix! My responses related to the outside situations.
The task of every day! I finally found out that this is life, and this is the best way to live it: reflecting, considering earth to bring dreams come true, avoid flying high and loosing ground, avoid staying in the dark and loosing myself in my own laberynths! Oh boy! That is for me being with my self: supporting me, standing me and for me.
Nature, it´s cycles, it´s freshness, has helped me a lot: it is conforting, it reflects my own forces, is shows me my inner movements. It is so much for me!
I wish you well and please know that we, everyone, has passed through this dark period of the soul, which shows me where and when I loose control. And by reflecting, how to regain it step by step, little by little, with effort and patience!
Good luck and it´s been great to find UQW, Marina and Kacey. Thanks, missmudpie for opening this opp. for us!
Would you think therapy would suit you? Or a group, or some workshops? To recover and maintain your own inner core?
Much luck!
(within this space I find so much and profound wisdom! Don ´t you feel the same? I study the whole thing and reflect it with my life experiences and my every day life!).
RocÃo.
Have no words to say thanks and see the support everybody’s giving..have become kind of needy off-lately which is bothersome but feel something’s to be dealt in anyway posbl and I have to deal with it..have to be stronger and blv in myself..strength doesn’t come easy, it comes and goes..hope to be stronger and emerge out of all this.. If the need rises I may ask for a group therapy session…day with patients, seeing their misery sometime takes mind off those intense emotions.. Il watch this space for more soon and frequently now..again have no words at thoughtful people loud here..
Hope! Faith!m/
I am finding this period of life transformational. Loving it – now. Saturn is currently opposite my sun (orb 3), but saturn is also exactly conjunct Black moon lillith (orb 0). Initially was very difficult when the opposition was exact (orb 0) and the losses piled up as the transit activated… losses of friends & vocation. Big, eh?! However, as transit has progressed I have shed many beliefs – which at first was very fast and tough – but now have transformed and loving the space and pause in life that’s been created. Feel stronger and happier now that some illusions have been dispelled about people and the world. Thank you Saturn Opposite Sun. LOL.
My daughter’s got this going on at the same time as Saturn square her ascendant. She’s feeling very stuck and alone but is focussing on her studies. I’m just worried about her health because of the ascendant square – she suffered very badly when Saturn transited the empty Libran arm of her Mercury/Mars/Neptune Cardinal T-square, she was prescribed an antidepressant, which made her feel worse, took two overdoses and was eventually found to have bipolar disorder. Medical care was a shambles.New moons on her ascendant and sun were flashpoints when she ended up in hospital.
Thankfully she won’t have to revisit that one until 2040, but I am really nervous about this current transit.